Loyalty Check

When I was in relationships, I found that something that I used to never understand would occur. The women would ask me to do non-logical or pointless actions. Then I would be like,k "Why would I do that", "What is the reason", or "That doesn't make any sense". Then they would get mad at me. That happened for years. Typically sensible people would get in situations then as me to do bizarre acts. Finally I realized what that is, that is a loyalty check. When a relationship is based on emotion then people who depend on that do loyalty checks to see if your emotional motivation will override your logical motivations. Once I realized that then I noticed that that occurs on lots of places in life. Loyalty checks not only help the controller understand how well the followers are following but can be used to build a habit in the follower.  Start out with small loyalty check then build to bigger ones. That can be used to build groups that have a common purpose. Anyway after I realized that then my logical mind was able to wrap illogical request in the logical interpretation that it was a loyalty check and whether the action made any sense did not matter, that value was in demonstrating loyal. So then instead of being bother by the illogical request, this interpretation made the request logical.